After Christmas, breathe the sea _ _ Sina blog, Aberdeen Results.

Christmas after Christmas has passed a relief, we loose a long breath. .Put aside their traditional religious significance aside, Christmas is actually the same as the Chinese New Year is a family gathered together opportunities. .Although some of the different forms (such as food, gifts, decoration), but the end result of Christmas and New Year are the same: everyone is a few kilograms of fat, some more new clothes, read a lot of garbage on TV, .vowed to himself never to drink so much alcohol. .I guess, whether it is Christmas or New Year, the relationship between family members will go through a similar process of development. .First of all, when the long-awaited first eyes met relatives of the heart, there swarmed to the infinite joy and warmth. .At this time everyone was thinking, friends, relations can be as changeable with the weather, but the family never love another, because the blood is permanent, is not the strongest of the bonds of friendship. .Next, you'll see why with these relatives, I saw once or twice a year: Although we are all the seeds from the same elders "evolve" down, but apart from some genetic similarities do not seem to find .to any common ground. .Finally, when Santa Claus brought freshness and harmony and the spirit of goodwill was gone along with alcohol evaporates, leaving only the pain of the mind to, and a strong sense of relief: Thank God, this year's Christmas finally over! .Would you think this is a bit too exaggerated? .I mean really is not too much. .Before December 25 each year, conflicts between family members, or even on the table is not as happy and forged enemies, which is an eating turkey, singing carols, kissing under the mistletoe branch, as were British .essential Christmas tradition. .Although I would like to put my family Christmas this year, one by one about to happen, but can not do this: Recently, my dad have a way to know through an online translation software to write in my blog, barely able to read each sentence into Chinese .English, so easy to reveal the secrets of the family has become extremely dangerous. .However, I can give some common examples, if we name with Yin's have in common, of course, purely coincidental. .In my opinion, do not usually have a source of pleasure, that is, everyone's high expectations for Christmas. .Children during Christmas is the year's most fascinating, the most wonderful time: its meaning is a gift, a chocolate, a beautiful Christmas tree and the magic of Santa, is the 25th and wake up unable to control stomach .The sense of excitement. .With age, many things will change, the only Christmas can not be used to have as a child is fun. .As long as the next generation of children has not yet appeared, although the Christmas tree, turkey and chocolate are also opt for a full, but these days hope all is still not satisfied. .A related problem is that the whole family for a reunion, the members of each family will temporarily forget that they are already adults, and miraculously turned back hundreds of years old. .At this time, when the grandmother of them become mothers love tube baby, a father has changed back to love laughing at my sister's brother, when the doctoral students, lawyers, college students have changed back to love Shuapi Qi, cantankerous child. .With friends or colleagues in a while, you may be a sensible, competent and mature "adult", but a get together with family, these advantages have been forgotten characters bare, and you will consolidate all the actions of their elders since childhood .You form impressions and prejudices. .For example, year-old Yan Haijie may have little lazy, but also love to do some strange things for everyone to have fun, so the same twenty-year-old Yan Haijie. .Unfortunately, the twenty-five years old to show this behavior, we have do not feel cute. .This is a vicious circle: that she had changed, but the family did not know, so finally found something you have to imagine, back to the original situation, which continues to maintain the impression that the wrong ones. .Christmas is over, heart, head and inevitably a bit sad. .Christmas decorations have to close up, street and house all of a sudden to become dark, deserted in the summer of warmth and color are still in the distant future. .However, there is no need to be too depressing: pressure to spend money on gifts passed, with the image of family pressure to be happy later, clenched teeth can finally relax. .Now, we do not have at least eight months to think about Christmas. .If it can not wait for next year's British stores began selling in August, Christmas products, we also have New Year's Day the middle, Valentine's Day, Easter, Women's Day, Labor Day, Children's Day, Chinese New Year of course ., Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival. ... Oh my God! .Festival in the world will never ever be spent! .<center> </ center> (the body of a beautiful Christmas tree )<!-- end ->.